We come here to Earth to master lessons about love, and the most important one is self love. Love is the truth of our essence, but how many of us remember that. When we are born, we are a clean slate. We don’t even know that we are a girl or a boy, what country we live in now or what language we are supposed to speak. We just are—a being of love. Our personality begins to be shaped by our family and the world around us from day one. Gradually we are molded into the persona we carry today, and even though we might have been raised by loving parents, chances are we still hold limiting beliefs about who and what we are.
It’s time to re-member. This starts by remembering to love ourselves. One way to accomplish this is to ask your higher self to activate the vibration of self love inside you so that you can become that, and model that love out into the world. As you love yourself you will begin to see the truth of everyone else. They were born into this world just like you, and depending on their circumstances, their ability to love and be loved was shaped just like yours was. So be gentle with yourself and everyone else. Don’t judge—simply love. It’s an inside job…
With each day that passes, we are getting better at figuring out the new game of life. We’re starting to put the puzzle pieces in their proper places, and the big picture is beginning to appear. This is helping us to integrate all the work we’ve done over the past year or so (finally). Manifestation and conscious creation appear to be challenges for many of us right now, but that is merely an illusion, the last vestiges of duality making them appear that way. Your good judgment will win out, however, so that you can see things as they truly are. You are a creator, manifesting in concert with your Body, the consummate, powerful manifestor that it is.
Good judgment is one of out spiritual lessons, and by using it to see through illusion, you are actually mastering this lesson. When you are able to stay in alignment with your truth, you have greater access to spiritual guidance, which assists in gaining this mastery.
For many of us, boundaries are a challenge, making it difficult to know which guidance to follow (ie: is this my ego, does he/she know more than I, why can’t I hear my guidance?) The key to gaining clarity here is self love. When you love yourself enough to stand in your power, the power of your true nature, that guidance flows vertically, supporting you totally.
Most of you reading my blogs are focused on creation, conscious creation of a higher vibration and more sustainable greater reality. The challenge we face is that the game board we are playing on keeps changing, such that the rules of the game that applied yesterday aren’t working today. It’s disorienting and frustrating, isn’t it?
It’s more important now than ever before to: 1) stay present and grounded and 2) remember that we are multi-dimensional beings that are having this human experience. When you do these you are able to connect to higher vibrational grids that DO have the capacity to support you in creating healthier, more sustainable ways of being. Take the time to go into the silence and let your Higher Self help you to locate the aspect of you that has already mastered the game board. Have that aspect share the energetic information that will assist you in navigating today’s shifting sands. All you have to do is ASK!
Receiving isn’t easy or natural for most of us. Sometimes it takes a major jolt to open us to what receiving is all about. I had been opening to receive and focused on it for the last year, but the events of the last six weeks put me in a place where receiving became a necessity. Amazing people stepped up to support me when I couldn’t take care of myself, and I had to let them. Some profound awareness came in through all this.
When we allow others to give to us, at any level, we open a flow of love. I watched people grow (and glow) through giving to me, and I could feel my own heart open every time I said ‘thank you’.
God’s grace is flowing to us constantly, and all too often we don’t accept it. Maybe we think we aren’t deserving. Regardless, when we don’t open to receive grace and the flow of blessings, we miss a huge opportunity for growth. The beauty of grace is that it has nothing to do with deserving. It’s a gift of unconditional love.
We are constantly being presented with stuff. How we choose to look at what is in front of us is up to us. This goes back to the question of whether the glass is half full or half empty, doesn’t it?
Some of the stuff that shows up doesn’t appear to be very pleasant, but whether it is viewed as a challenge or an opportunity actually impacts the energy of whatever it is. It starts a shift that can actually create the outcome—bring in a different one from the field of pure potential.
If you view it as a challenge, that is what you are creating. However, regardless of what you choose to see, the situation is an opportunity. It can either be an opportunity for growth or an opportunity for struggle.
The scary part is that the choice is up to you! Whatever you choose to see is what you will create. That is a heck of a responsibility! In the past, when we were less aware of our power, it was easier. We could simply dismiss anything as fate. Many people have used the term ‘God’s will.’ In other words, failure to take any personal responsibility for the things that happen. We are all to quick to claim it when the outcome is good, though. “I really worked hard.” “She deserved to win.” etc.
I have used the term ‘blesson’ for years to describe the idea that there are always blessings in every lesson. Sometimes you have to look really deeply to find them but these golden nuggets are always there waiting to be discovered. Think about this the next time you are facing one of those so called challenges. Flip it and let it become an opportunity to learn something new about your power to create!
As many of you are aware, I have been studying Human Design and the Gene Keys with my friend Tuck Self. I have learned a great deal about myself in this process and the unfolding continues. Recently, Tuck was telling me that the shadow of some of my Gene Keys has to do with giving up on my dreams. I didn’t resonate with this because on the surface I am living my dreams—successful coaching practice, success with my books, comfortable lifestyle, etc.
As I dug deeper into what this might mean, I realized that it was more serious than giving up on my dreams. Literally, I couldn’t even tell myself what my dreams were! That was a shock! After extended meditation and pondering this I remembered. My dream had always been to be accepted and appreciated. Upon getting that, I could see how many relationships, jobs, organizations and situations I had been a part of over the years where I was NOT appreciated or accepted. Wow. I know that acceptance and appreciation has to begin within, and I’ve reached a point in my evolution where I DO accept and appreciate myself, and don’t need that from anyone outside me.
I have made a commitment to myself that going forward, everything I do will be a step in the direction of my dreams or I will not do it, and anyone or anything that is not in alignment with my dreams will be let go.
I offer this to you for your own inner work. Is there a place in your life where you have forgotten YOUR dream or quit before you got it?
It’s so much larger than we think—so much bigger than we can comprehend. Last weekend I was given a momentary glimpse of the divine plan, the big picture, and I was able to see connections I never realized existed. It was amazing, and left me with a lasting feeling of peace and trust.
Everything is connected. The old adage of the movement of a butterfly’s wing is felt on the other side of the world is true. Every choice we make impacts so much more than just our lives, but potentially touches many others at the same time, and potentially prepares you to have just the right information that you will need to respond to a question at some point down the line, to be able to share with someone exactly what they need at that moment.
There are no accidents and no coincidences. Once you can get this concept, life becomes so much easier, freer, because you just know that everything you do is right. As long as you follow your heart and listen to your inner guidance, you will be in alignment—in the right place at the right time.
Find your truth. Let it guide your choices. Be that for the world!
As we continue in this flow of evolution, what are you noticing? Physical stuff like dizziness, aches and pains and/or emotional periods? For me it has been exhaustion. I have spent countless hours in bed over the last two weeks.
The message I am getting is that our soul is evolving rapidly as more light pours onto the planet, but due to the density of the physical body, it is having a hard time keeping up.
Here are some suggestions to support you on your personal journey to enLIGHTenment:
- Talk to your body, even to your cells. Remind your body, like you the soul, that it expresses itself in many dimensions and suggest that it locate the highest vibrational aspect of itself to reflect its energy to your body on this physical plane.
- Ask and intend that your 26 genetic codons increase their vibration to the highest possible frequency.
- Open your heart center to allow even more light and love to enter because the more love you hold, the more light you can hold and then the higher your DNA can evolve.
We are no longer limited by our genetic predisposition. We CAN be all we want to be. Stay strong and rest. Allow yourself to move gracefully through this amazing time. Pushing does’t help–it actually slows the process. Patience is your gift.
Some amazing energetic shifts have taken place on our planet just this week, and we aren’t done with this whole mutation process I talked about in my last newsletter. There is a huge amount of support for each of us to achieve our goals. Doors have opened to allow us to forgive even stuff we had totally forgotten had happened, and resources we didn’t even know we had are awakening within each of us. What a cool time to be alive!
So, if you are reading this and thinking ‘Whaaa? Did I miss something?’ Trust me—you didn’t. Nobody has! Each of us is just at a different place in our awakening, so it doesn’t serve to compare yourself to me or anyone else. It’s all unfolding exactly as it is supposed to.
As Matt Kahn teaches, ‘whatever arises, love that’. And as you love yourself and everyone and everything that pops up for you, you will clear the way to see all the wonderful stuff that is opening for us all.
If I can assist in any way, let me know. Don’t forget about my complimentary consultation offer on the home page of my website and the DNA Activation Webinar that started July 27.