In today’s world we have become used to looking for our connectivity externally. Look at how attached we are to the media, Facebook and our smartphones. Increasingly we look for relationships virtually as well—hence the popularity of online dating, and this becomes addictive too. If you have ever been a member of an online dating site you will recognize the symptoms: constantly checking email to see if someone ‘liked’ your profile and spending hours searching the database looking for Prince or Princess Charming.
What happens to you physically when you do this? You become emotionally and physically exhausted without even realizing why! When you place your reference points for connection external to yourself, it drains your energy.
In fact what we are all searching for in relationship is SOUL connection. We are trying to complete our soul circuit, just like electricity needs a completed circuit to light a bulb. The ONLY place you can find that connection is within, and there is the basis for being able to create a healthy connection with another—you must become what you desire before you can attract it!
Take time today to go within. Ask your Higher Self to locate all the reference points for connection you have placed outside yourself—on others, on technology etc. and bring them back within your own heart. As you find your love within, you will attract to you people who likewise love themselves.
